Monday, February 27, 2012

Wedding vows for the texting age.

I promise to be your bff

LOLz! I love grammar. I also find the various degradations amusing and sad at the same time. This comic has been popular for obvious reasons. I hope this comic finds you ROFL. :D

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Thursday, February 16, 2012

Wednesday, February 15, 2012

More Committees Than Members

How is it that our church has more committees than members?

Church "work" is a tricky thing to manage. I've seen more active members of churches suddenly drop off the roles because there are simply so many things that they are asked to do that they just decide to chuck it. It's easier to stop going to church than it is to tell some committee chair that they don't really want to participate in their new program. So do yourself a favor, please don't pressure members to accept responsibilities that they aren't really jazzed about. Don't eye new members as fresh blood for your committee. Make it clear to people that you'd like them on your team but you understand they might be busy with other things and, please, take no for an answer!

Recently I've heard rumblings from other people bringing up this very issue, so I'm not alone in this. Churches are seeing declines pretty much across the board and ours is no exception. But just be aware that adding a program to bring in new members could be counter productive if you burn out the ones you have. By the way, I belong to the Presbyterian Church and while it's very democratic in its process, I think we are the committee champions. We have committees that nominate people for committees including the members that will be on next year's committee-nominating committee.

Well, after all that, at least I've learned how to spell committee. ;)

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Tuesday, February 7, 2012

Lenten sacrifice

I don't know what it is but I'm pretty sure I gave it up for lent.

Lent. I know lot's of people who give up one thing or another for Lent. Usually it's something that they really like: sugar, chocolate, Cokes. Sometimes it's more traditional like meat or it's an activity like watching TV or video games. Whatever. Going without is healthy for the body and mind but to get the full effect, replace the void with a dialog with God. If you're fasting, use that hunger to help you focus on your relationship with Christ. Consider all the people who HAVE to go without and use your want to better understand their plight and remember them in your prayers.

Yeesh! Not a very funny commentary. I hope you like the cartoon anyway. Peace to you this Lenten Season.

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Friday, February 3, 2012

The unspoken assigned seating of congregations

I believe you're in his seat.

If you go to church, you know how it works. Everybody has their preferred seating. I often wonder if visitors sense that when they come in for the first time. Do more stubborn members shoo people out of their place? Does it drive them crazy to see a different rear where theirs should be? Anyway, if you don't regularly go to church, try it and let me know what happens.

BTW, I sit in the choir, so my seat is truly assigned.

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